So in an endeavor to communicate better, my husband sent me this invitation:
Would you be willing to join me in an experiment for the rest of our lives? I want to write to each other, not on any kind of schedule or about anything in particular. Just writing to one another, both of us making an honest effort to communicate out of our sincere desire to know one another better. We could use this medium to document our letters and keep them for the future. Each of us just creating a new note in response to the other and when it's finished, letting the other know a letter is waiting.
Hopefully, this is the beginning of an older, wiser couple. ;) The Lord knows we need the help!